Over and over again, we dream big dreams and have enormous aspirations. Unfortunately, our dreams remain just that - dreams.
Life could be a great deal better, if only we learned to aspire higher. The most widespread difficulty in setting goals is the word impossible. For the most part people get hung up thinking I can't do this. It is too hard. It is unattainable. No one can do this. If everyone thought that, there would be no inventions, no innovations, and no breakthroughs in human achievement.
Keep in mind that scientists were puzzled when they took a look at the unassuming bumblebee. In theory, they said, it was not possible for the bumblebee to fly. Fortunately for the bumblebee nobody has told it so. As a result fly it does.
If you limit yourself with self-doubt, and self-limiting assumptions, you will in no way be able to break past what you consider not possible. If you reach excessively far out into the sky without working towards your goal, you will find yourself clinging to the impossible dream.
As you break up your dream into achievable steps, you will find out that the goals you thought were not possible become easier to bring about. And the not possible begins to seem possible after all.
Thomas Edison once said that genius is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration. Nothing could be truer. For one to achieve his or her dreams, there has to have been hard effort and discipline. But take note that that one percent has to be a think-big dream, and not some easily accomplished one.
Think big and work hard to accomplish those dreams. As you step up the ladder of progress, you will just about find out that the not possible has just become a little bit more possible.
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Friday, June 22, 2012
Score Killer: Low Self Confidence
Face it, taking a test is a nerve wracking experience. The more important the test, the more nerves are involved and can be a key factor in your score. Some individuals have called for an end to testing, since it is an unfair way to measure the information an individual has learned. Since that is not a suitable option, individuals must shift their focus from “why should I take a test” to “how should I take a test?” Testing is well entrenched in today’s society. In school, we must take tests to prove our comprehension of a certain subject, we must take driving examinations in order to receive the necessary licenses, and we must tests to determine our general intelligence. However, the way we test is as important as the subject of the test itself. Self confidence plays a major factor in your testing score and for good reason. When you trust yourself, you tend to make better decisions and clearer judgments. You do not second guess your first instinct and confuse yourself due to doubt.
Before you enter into any examination, you should mentally prepare yourself for the test in addition to preparing for the specific subjects covered by the test. One way to do this is to maintain a positive attitude about your capabilities. If you enter into any examination with a poor attitude, you are guaranteed to do poorly on the test. You may have the subject carefully instilled in your mind, but your low self confidence will undermine your attempt every time. Even if you find you know the answers to the questions present, that voice of doubt in the back of your head will surface and make you question the correctness of each answer you supply. A general rule of thumb is to go with your initial (or gut) instinct. If you feel an answer is correct, more often than not it is correct. However, when your low self confidence kicks in and makes you unable to trust your instincts, problems arise.
One way to conquer the low self confidence killer is to thoroughly prepare for the test before hand. No one does well walking into a test completely unprepared, and you are no different. Take time to review the material carefully in the method to which you are best accustomed to studying. Some individuals find they pick up and retain more information in a verbal question and answer session. Others individuals are visual learners and find the use of cue cards or flash cards exceedingly helpful. Whatever the case, find your preferred method of study and stick with it! Ask for help from a friend or family member if necessary. After you have reviewed the material, create and complete a practice test. Have a friend or family member administer the examination in a formal manner. This puts you on the spot and calls your self confidence into play. If you can successfully complete the test, whether verbal or written, your self confidence will be boosted. However, if you take your practice examination and find yourself second guessing your answers, that is a good sign you do not know the material well enough. Consider reviewing the information more in depth, then try the test again.
On the day of the test, forgo last minute cramming. Studies have shown this rush to learn a trivial bit of information is pointless, as your brain cannot retain such hurried information in a reasonable fashion. Instead, take a moment to calm your nerves and reinforce your self confidence. If you are at peace with yourself and your capabilities, you will succeed on your exam.
Before you enter into any examination, you should mentally prepare yourself for the test in addition to preparing for the specific subjects covered by the test. One way to do this is to maintain a positive attitude about your capabilities. If you enter into any examination with a poor attitude, you are guaranteed to do poorly on the test. You may have the subject carefully instilled in your mind, but your low self confidence will undermine your attempt every time. Even if you find you know the answers to the questions present, that voice of doubt in the back of your head will surface and make you question the correctness of each answer you supply. A general rule of thumb is to go with your initial (or gut) instinct. If you feel an answer is correct, more often than not it is correct. However, when your low self confidence kicks in and makes you unable to trust your instincts, problems arise.
One way to conquer the low self confidence killer is to thoroughly prepare for the test before hand. No one does well walking into a test completely unprepared, and you are no different. Take time to review the material carefully in the method to which you are best accustomed to studying. Some individuals find they pick up and retain more information in a verbal question and answer session. Others individuals are visual learners and find the use of cue cards or flash cards exceedingly helpful. Whatever the case, find your preferred method of study and stick with it! Ask for help from a friend or family member if necessary. After you have reviewed the material, create and complete a practice test. Have a friend or family member administer the examination in a formal manner. This puts you on the spot and calls your self confidence into play. If you can successfully complete the test, whether verbal or written, your self confidence will be boosted. However, if you take your practice examination and find yourself second guessing your answers, that is a good sign you do not know the material well enough. Consider reviewing the information more in depth, then try the test again.
On the day of the test, forgo last minute cramming. Studies have shown this rush to learn a trivial bit of information is pointless, as your brain cannot retain such hurried information in a reasonable fashion. Instead, take a moment to calm your nerves and reinforce your self confidence. If you are at peace with yourself and your capabilities, you will succeed on your exam.
Friday, June 15, 2012
Reinforcing Self Esteem at Home
Your home should be a place of peace and refuge where you can find rest and solace in order to recharge from the events of the day. This refuge is especially important when it comes to reinforcing your self esteem. Each day, our self esteem suffers from drastic blows from friends, family members, coworkers, spouses, children, school mates, or even perfect strangers. Instead of allowing yourself to become entrenched in feelings of self loathing or self doubt, take time to reinforce your self esteem in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Know that you home is a refuge for your body, mind, and spirit so that you can devote the necessary attention to yourself.
When dealing with reinforcing your self esteem in the comfort of your own home, consider creating a space that is only for you. Take a private corner, cozy niche, or spare room and create your own private oasis. Each individual will have a different idea of an area that is totally relaxing, calming, and reenergizing to him or her. Maybe you see a sparse Asian-inspired area where you can practice your tai chi and meditation in order to rebuild and replenish your spirit. Perhaps your idea of a private sanctuary is a plot of land where you work in tune with nature to care for terrific plants of all species and types. Maybe your private oasis is a cozy reading nook filled with books, a comfortable chair, and good quality reading light. Whatever your space looks like, ensure it is made especially for you. Instruct your spouse, children, siblings, family members, or roommates to avoid your special space so that you can maintain the personal and private feeling. Also, instruct anyone who shares you home not to bother you while you are in your personal oasis. Attempt to create an atmosphere absent of distractions like the telephone, computer, or television.
Other ways to reinforce your self esteem while at home may seem silly or trivial, but will make your feel better about yourself and your strengths. Leave a message for yourself or a family member every morning on the bathroom member. Include compliments and praise in this message in order to reinforce your own or another person’s self esteem. If you live with someone else, take turns leaving each other notes so that you can both assist each other in this task. Also, place tokens or items that remind you of your achievements in prominent places around your home. These tokens can include ribbons, trophies, certificates, rewards, photographs, or special memorabilia from an important time in your life. Ensure these items are in a place that you are sure to see daily. Your refrigerator door is a great place to post self esteem boosting items, since you are sure to visit the fridge at least once a day. Additionally, the bathroom mirror is an excellent spot since most individuals will at least take one glimpse in the mirror before leaving for the day.
An excellent way to reinforce your self esteem is to praise yourself for goals accomplished. Even something as simple as losing a couple pounds should be celebrated in order for the accomplishment of the goal to become a reality. When you accomplish a large goal that you worked very diligently to work towards, plan a party. This is an excellent idea to plan a festive event in order to celebrate with your friends and family members. Your self esteem is sure to be boosted after a fabulous party thrown in your honor! These tips are excellent methods to reinforcing your self esteem in the comfort of your own home.
When dealing with reinforcing your self esteem in the comfort of your own home, consider creating a space that is only for you. Take a private corner, cozy niche, or spare room and create your own private oasis. Each individual will have a different idea of an area that is totally relaxing, calming, and reenergizing to him or her. Maybe you see a sparse Asian-inspired area where you can practice your tai chi and meditation in order to rebuild and replenish your spirit. Perhaps your idea of a private sanctuary is a plot of land where you work in tune with nature to care for terrific plants of all species and types. Maybe your private oasis is a cozy reading nook filled with books, a comfortable chair, and good quality reading light. Whatever your space looks like, ensure it is made especially for you. Instruct your spouse, children, siblings, family members, or roommates to avoid your special space so that you can maintain the personal and private feeling. Also, instruct anyone who shares you home not to bother you while you are in your personal oasis. Attempt to create an atmosphere absent of distractions like the telephone, computer, or television.
Other ways to reinforce your self esteem while at home may seem silly or trivial, but will make your feel better about yourself and your strengths. Leave a message for yourself or a family member every morning on the bathroom member. Include compliments and praise in this message in order to reinforce your own or another person’s self esteem. If you live with someone else, take turns leaving each other notes so that you can both assist each other in this task. Also, place tokens or items that remind you of your achievements in prominent places around your home. These tokens can include ribbons, trophies, certificates, rewards, photographs, or special memorabilia from an important time in your life. Ensure these items are in a place that you are sure to see daily. Your refrigerator door is a great place to post self esteem boosting items, since you are sure to visit the fridge at least once a day. Additionally, the bathroom mirror is an excellent spot since most individuals will at least take one glimpse in the mirror before leaving for the day.
An excellent way to reinforce your self esteem is to praise yourself for goals accomplished. Even something as simple as losing a couple pounds should be celebrated in order for the accomplishment of the goal to become a reality. When you accomplish a large goal that you worked very diligently to work towards, plan a party. This is an excellent idea to plan a festive event in order to celebrate with your friends and family members. Your self esteem is sure to be boosted after a fabulous party thrown in your honor! These tips are excellent methods to reinforcing your self esteem in the comfort of your own home.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Self-Confidence in Friendships
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you recently met someone new and felt like you could have a lasting friendship with that person? The trouble is, you're not sure if the other person feels the same way. As with all relationships, sometimes you just hit it off right away with new friends, and other times it takes a bit more cultivation. Perhaps the other person is shy or feeling a bit awkward, just as you are. But sometimes doubts and worries get in the way, undermining our confidence. Is there any way around this?
The good news is that usually your instincts are correct. If you feel there is an opportunity for a friendship, the other person usually does also. Those little things that pick at your confidence could be a number of things. In a new friendship in particular, for example, you don't want to offend the other person, so you may find yourself treading carefully. This can feel like you have no confidence, when in reality, you're simply testing the waters as you get to know the other person.
Social issues can get in the way as well. If you're self conscious about social interactions, even when they're one-on-one, you may find yourself having difficulty knowing what to say and how to act. This usually is related to a lack of self confidence or an excess of self-consciousness. What you should know is that many people share these feelings. Just as you are worried about what to say, the other person may very well be feeling the same way. And even if this is not the case, everyone, at some point or another, has been in a situation where they felt awkward. It's likely that the other person will be empathetic, particularly if you're upfront and honest about your insecurities. Simply saying that, while you're a great friend, you find it hard to form new friendships, will often be enough. Yes, this puts you on the line a little bit, but think of it this way. If the other person is unkind in his or her reaction, this probably isn't the type of person you'll want to form a friendship with anyway.
Developing new friendships does require you to be vulnerable to some extent. Obviously, this increases the longer and better you get to know someone. But even in the early stages of a friendship, if you don't open up a little, your chances of developing a meaningful relationship diminishes. All relationships require a bit of give and take, and friendships are no different. You don't need to expose your deepest, darkest secrets right away, but do give the other person some clues as to who you are, your interests, and feelings. This also makes it safe for the other person to do so as well.
Is it possible to get better at developing relationships? Sure! All it takes is a bit of practice. Yes, this can be a bit scary and intimidating, but the more often you reach out to others, the more likely you are to find people with similar interests. Also, the more you practice developing new friendships, the more confident you'll become in your ability to meet and relate to new people.
If you're stuck on things to say or how to go about it, consider looking into some books devoted to conversational starters and social interactions. Some of the tips are useful and provide a good starting point. Also consider taking classes or taking part in a favorite activity with a group. This is a great way to meet people with similar interests, and this makes it much easier to start a dialogue, as you already have something to talk about.
The good news is that usually your instincts are correct. If you feel there is an opportunity for a friendship, the other person usually does also. Those little things that pick at your confidence could be a number of things. In a new friendship in particular, for example, you don't want to offend the other person, so you may find yourself treading carefully. This can feel like you have no confidence, when in reality, you're simply testing the waters as you get to know the other person.
Social issues can get in the way as well. If you're self conscious about social interactions, even when they're one-on-one, you may find yourself having difficulty knowing what to say and how to act. This usually is related to a lack of self confidence or an excess of self-consciousness. What you should know is that many people share these feelings. Just as you are worried about what to say, the other person may very well be feeling the same way. And even if this is not the case, everyone, at some point or another, has been in a situation where they felt awkward. It's likely that the other person will be empathetic, particularly if you're upfront and honest about your insecurities. Simply saying that, while you're a great friend, you find it hard to form new friendships, will often be enough. Yes, this puts you on the line a little bit, but think of it this way. If the other person is unkind in his or her reaction, this probably isn't the type of person you'll want to form a friendship with anyway.
Developing new friendships does require you to be vulnerable to some extent. Obviously, this increases the longer and better you get to know someone. But even in the early stages of a friendship, if you don't open up a little, your chances of developing a meaningful relationship diminishes. All relationships require a bit of give and take, and friendships are no different. You don't need to expose your deepest, darkest secrets right away, but do give the other person some clues as to who you are, your interests, and feelings. This also makes it safe for the other person to do so as well.
Is it possible to get better at developing relationships? Sure! All it takes is a bit of practice. Yes, this can be a bit scary and intimidating, but the more often you reach out to others, the more likely you are to find people with similar interests. Also, the more you practice developing new friendships, the more confident you'll become in your ability to meet and relate to new people.
If you're stuck on things to say or how to go about it, consider looking into some books devoted to conversational starters and social interactions. Some of the tips are useful and provide a good starting point. Also consider taking classes or taking part in a favorite activity with a group. This is a great way to meet people with similar interests, and this makes it much easier to start a dialogue, as you already have something to talk about.
How to teach your downline to double their followers in half the time.
According to Wikipedia -
"Twitter is an online social networking service and microblogging service that enables its users to send and read text-based posts of up to 140 characters, known as "tweets". It was created in March 2006 by Jack Dorsey and launched that July. The service rapidly gained worldwide popularity, with over 140 million active users as of 2012, generating over 340 millions tweets daily and handling over 1.6 billion search queries per day. It has been described as "the SMS of the Internet." Unregistered users can read
the tweets, while registered users can post tweets through the website interface, SMS, or a range of apps for mobile devices."
In marketing terms, Twitter is an excellent tool to identify, contact, and connect with your niche market.
You can achieve phenominal marketing results by repeating these simple steps - search, follow, tweet. Twitter can allow you to locate your niche market with laser-like precision. And it allows your niche market to find you easily.
Now imagine what it would be like to double your followers overnight. Can you picture what your income stream or reader base would look like? How many additional people would you be able to connect with continuously?
Simply by repeating these simple steps - "search", "follow", "tweet" faster, you can create an enormous following instantly. Take a look at this incredible tool and decide for yourself if you can teach your downline how to double their followers in half the time.
Friday, June 8, 2012
Quick Self Esteem Boosts
If you are having one of those days where your self esteem seems to be dragging you down, instead of wallowing in self pity, take steps to boost yourself up! Maybe you just woke up not quite feeling your best or made a significant mistake in front of someone important. Perhaps you did not do as well as you thought on your test or did not excel at your interview. Everyone has had a day where the world just did not seem to be on their side and that black cloud was persistently over their head. Whatever the reason, learning a few tricks to quickly boost your self esteem will have a bounce in your step and your head in the clouds in no time!
Find a physically activity you enjoy doing. Whether it is jogging, aerobics, or yoga, exercise is a sure-fire way to boost your self esteem. If you are starting to feel low, take 15 minutes out of your day to exercise your worries away. In addition to producing endorphins that raise your spirits, you will have lessened your chances for disease, heart attack, and stroke in one fell swoop. If that capability is not enough to boost your self esteem, then think about the physical effects of exercise. Even a brief amount of exercise is enough to trim and shape up your body. The old saying, when you look good, you feel good is in full effect.
Take a second to be silly. Whether you need a hearty belly laugh or a moment to dance by yourself, a second is enough time to feel good about yourself again. Many websites will send jokes to your inbox on a daily or weekly basis. Sign up for this free service and open the e-mail when you are feeling low. There is nothing like a good laugh to remind yourself what a great person you are. Put on your favorite song and dance like there is no tomorrow. In addition to easing your stress, your self esteem will shoot through the roof as the music brings back favorite memories.
Allow yourself a luxury. Remind yourself you are important and worthy of the world on a silver platter. When things are not going your way and you begin to question yourself, take time to reward yourself. Whether it is a chocolate kiss or a pat on the back, your spirits—and self esteem—will be lifted. Write down your goals that you have achieved and look back at them when you are feeling low. Maybe you were the first person to graduate from college in your family. Perhaps you just closed on a fantastic house. Maybe you made President of your organization. Whatever your accomplishment, allow yourself a minute to remind yourself of your worth. Keep of your family and friends to remind yourself all these people are rooting for you to succeed. Make yourself notes that congratulate yourself on handling a situation or completing a goal.
Learn from your mistakes. As the old adage goes, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Acknowledge where you made your mistake and forgive yourself. That constant nagging guilt will ruin your self esteem. Make the necessary means to rid the guilt, learn from your actions, and move on. Think of mistakes as happy accidents or learning experiences.
How ever you choose to boost your self esteem, know that by doing so you approve of yourself as a person. Allowing issues to get you down will only lower your self esteem further. By keeping a positive attitude, you will have the ability to turn around unsavory situations and make them positive ones. Keep in mind you are a worthy person who has a bright future.
Find a physically activity you enjoy doing. Whether it is jogging, aerobics, or yoga, exercise is a sure-fire way to boost your self esteem. If you are starting to feel low, take 15 minutes out of your day to exercise your worries away. In addition to producing endorphins that raise your spirits, you will have lessened your chances for disease, heart attack, and stroke in one fell swoop. If that capability is not enough to boost your self esteem, then think about the physical effects of exercise. Even a brief amount of exercise is enough to trim and shape up your body. The old saying, when you look good, you feel good is in full effect.
Take a second to be silly. Whether you need a hearty belly laugh or a moment to dance by yourself, a second is enough time to feel good about yourself again. Many websites will send jokes to your inbox on a daily or weekly basis. Sign up for this free service and open the e-mail when you are feeling low. There is nothing like a good laugh to remind yourself what a great person you are. Put on your favorite song and dance like there is no tomorrow. In addition to easing your stress, your self esteem will shoot through the roof as the music brings back favorite memories.
Allow yourself a luxury. Remind yourself you are important and worthy of the world on a silver platter. When things are not going your way and you begin to question yourself, take time to reward yourself. Whether it is a chocolate kiss or a pat on the back, your spirits—and self esteem—will be lifted. Write down your goals that you have achieved and look back at them when you are feeling low. Maybe you were the first person to graduate from college in your family. Perhaps you just closed on a fantastic house. Maybe you made President of your organization. Whatever your accomplishment, allow yourself a minute to remind yourself of your worth. Keep of your family and friends to remind yourself all these people are rooting for you to succeed. Make yourself notes that congratulate yourself on handling a situation or completing a goal.
Learn from your mistakes. As the old adage goes, when life gives you lemons, make lemonade. Acknowledge where you made your mistake and forgive yourself. That constant nagging guilt will ruin your self esteem. Make the necessary means to rid the guilt, learn from your actions, and move on. Think of mistakes as happy accidents or learning experiences.
How ever you choose to boost your self esteem, know that by doing so you approve of yourself as a person. Allowing issues to get you down will only lower your self esteem further. By keeping a positive attitude, you will have the ability to turn around unsavory situations and make them positive ones. Keep in mind you are a worthy person who has a bright future.
Thursday, June 7, 2012
How to teach your downline to double their followers in half the time.
According to Wikipedia -
"Twitter is an online social networking service and microblogging service that enables its users to send and read text-based posts of up to 140 characters, known as "tweets". It was created in March 2006 by Jack Dorsey and launched that July. The service rapidly gained worldwide popularity, with over 140 million active users as of 2012, generating over 340 millions tweets daily and handling over 1.6 billion search queries per day. It has been described as "the SMS of the Internet." Unregistered users can read
the tweets, while registered users can post tweets through the website interface, SMS, or a range of apps for mobile devices."
In marketing terms, Twitter is an excellent tool to identify, contact, and connect with your niche market.
You can achieve phenominal marketing results by repeating these simple steps - search, follow, tweet. Twitter can allow you to locate your niche market with laser-like precision. And it allows your niche market to find you easily.
Now imagine what it would be like to double your followers overnight. Can you picture what your income stream or reader base would look like? How many additional people would you be able to connect with continuously?
Simply by repeating these simple steps - "search", "follow", "tweet" faster, you can create an enormous following instantly. Take a look at this incredible tool and decide for yourself if you can teach your downline how to double their followers in half the time.
How do I get clients?
Do you find yourself asking the questions "how do i get clients?" or "how do i get customers?" or "where to find customers?"? Maybe you wanted to learn the secrets of "how to" entrepreneur and "how to" do the business after you learned how to start a business. What are the strategies of marketing anyway? Do these provide ways to get business? Once you learn how start a small business, you should have a firm grasp on how to find business and how to get clients.
You should then be answering the question of "how do i get more business?". Learning how to get clients is part of learning how to do marketing in order to attract new customers and get customers. Learning how to get customers is a continous part of running a small business and marketing. People ask me "what is small business marketing?". Small business marketing involves understanding who your customers are and where they can be found. Marketing for the small business can be done on a shoe string budget. Marketing a small business on the Internet can be extremely effective if you understand the key strategies. Once you learn how to get a customer, you repeat the process faster in order to make good money.
The small business marketing plan you create should show you hot to get clients which will also show you how to get good money with your small business. How you start a business should depend on your marketing plan.
Your marketing plan should be updated regularly in order to reveal to you how to get new customers. More customers should be your goal and the marketing plan will help you figure out how to find customers.
Small business marketing is the key to sucess and there are ways you can learn about marketing strategies for a business which will reduce the time required to find new customers. A business marketing plan will allow you to determine how to get customers as well as how much it will cost to get customers. When you create your small business marketing strategy, you should evaluate the numerous ways to find new customers. Determine which methods will provide the greatest payoff in terms of results compared to money and time.
Creating a small business marketing plan should be done before starting a small business. The marketing research should indicate the level of demand for your products and/or services as well as information about your prospects. Your marketing plan should provide the methods for finding new customers as well as attracting customers to your business. Once you determine where you find customers and the effort to get customers, you can then determine whether or not to continue with your small business idea.
Wednesday, June 6, 2012
How do I get customers
Customers are critical to the success of any business. Your business needs a steady supply of customers in order to thrive. Finding new customers or helping new customers find you is the topic of this blog.
Marketing online is an incredible way to get more customers. You can use the Internet to locate your niche market as well as allow your niche market to find you. You can then present your message to your prospects and invite them to learn more by calling you, emailing you, or visiting your Website.
Social media is a great way to find your prospects as well as allow your prospects to learn about your business and your products/services. Facebook and Twitter are the two most common forms of social media. You can quickly find people who would be interested in buying from you. There are ways to direct these people to your Website in order to learn more or even order from you.
Email campaigns are also a way to contact your prospects. Email is a direct method of communication therefore caution must be exercised to avoid spam accusations.
The single most important step in getting customers is writing down your goals. Goals play an integral part in business growth. You must constantly review your goals and compare your results to them. This allows you to adjust your strategy and technique. You should set daily, weekly, monthly, annual, as well as mid and long-term goals. Understanding where you want to go will allow you to map out a route to get you there.
If you are asking yourself - "how do I get customers", visit the Website to learn how to get customers. Customers are the lifeblood of any business. The more customers you have, the more money you will make. You can get customers today just by visiting http://www.learnhowtogetunlimitedcustomers.com
Friday, June 1, 2012
Promise Yourself to be Self-Confident
Imagine a situation wherein you have all the comforts a person can ask for. You have a beautiful apartment equipped with all the equipments of modern living. You have a modular kitchen with the latest design in the town, a state of art air conditioning system which cools your home within seconds, a hi-fidelity home theatre system to take you to a melodious journey after a hard day, a plasma T.V to get the joy of a big picture, a fully automated laundry system with intelligent sensors, a Video Audio integrated computer system which organizes everything from your data to family albums in a jiffy, latest soft lighting for your bedroom and much more – but you don’t have electricity. Yes, you read it right your apartment does not have any provision for electricity. Would you now want to live in it?
Just as the absence of electricity reduced the ultra modern apartment to a thing we better not talk about, absence of self-confidence can also do something like this to a seemingly healthy person. What is a house without electric power, and what is a human being without self-confidence. Without self-confidence even the best of people can be like sophisticated airplanes waiting for the take off. Without confidence you’ll probably never take off. Do you feel like in a similar situation? Do you feel that even after having all the qualities and skills are still aren’t successful? Ask Yourself – Is it lack of confidence?
Realize your worth – It helps you become confident!
It is important to realize that there is no one quite like you in the entire universe. In a human reproduction system, a million sperms are released out of which nature chooses the fittest to reach the egg to form the embryo. So isn’t it a reason enough to believe that you are one in a million and nature had worked so hard for you, the fittest, to see the world? How can you then not feel confident? You are the chosen one and it’s your duty to live upto the expectations of Mother Nature. It’s your duty to yourself and your soul to be confident. How else do you expect the qualities in you to come to forefront? Nature made you for a purpose, and how can you sit hopeless and betray Mother Nature by not doing what you were appointed to do. How can you be forgetful of your great self within? Yes, you are the part of that superior soul and there is enough light within you to see the path ahead. How can you afford to be not confident? So arise and speak loud to yourself “I am the chosen one! I have the power to transform my life! I have lots of work to do and I need all my inherent qualities. I HAVE to be confident. I MUST be confident”
Take a Decision
The hardest times are the times of indecision. Decision makes things easier. It pushes the uncertainty away and gives you a purpose to focus. It makes you think. Once you have decided to be confident, you are no longer waiting for some miracle to happen. You have taken a decision. You have control on your life now. You have decided not to waste your life anymore. You have decided to be confident. You have decided to take on this world head on!
This decision makes your life easier. It makes you feel lighter. You have a purpose and you got to focus on that purpose. Your mind is most powerful when its focussed. You can feel the difference. A focus mind changes your body language. Your steps are solid, your handshake is firm, your eyes right ahead. You become a changed person - A person who has the ability to achieve goals, the ability to be happy about his achievement, the ability to love to his family, the ability to stand in the crowd without any stress, the ability to take risks, the ability to realize his dream. Won’t you rather be like this person? Go ahead, you can do it.
Your time starts now!
Just as the absence of electricity reduced the ultra modern apartment to a thing we better not talk about, absence of self-confidence can also do something like this to a seemingly healthy person. What is a house without electric power, and what is a human being without self-confidence. Without self-confidence even the best of people can be like sophisticated airplanes waiting for the take off. Without confidence you’ll probably never take off. Do you feel like in a similar situation? Do you feel that even after having all the qualities and skills are still aren’t successful? Ask Yourself – Is it lack of confidence?
Realize your worth – It helps you become confident!
It is important to realize that there is no one quite like you in the entire universe. In a human reproduction system, a million sperms are released out of which nature chooses the fittest to reach the egg to form the embryo. So isn’t it a reason enough to believe that you are one in a million and nature had worked so hard for you, the fittest, to see the world? How can you then not feel confident? You are the chosen one and it’s your duty to live upto the expectations of Mother Nature. It’s your duty to yourself and your soul to be confident. How else do you expect the qualities in you to come to forefront? Nature made you for a purpose, and how can you sit hopeless and betray Mother Nature by not doing what you were appointed to do. How can you be forgetful of your great self within? Yes, you are the part of that superior soul and there is enough light within you to see the path ahead. How can you afford to be not confident? So arise and speak loud to yourself “I am the chosen one! I have the power to transform my life! I have lots of work to do and I need all my inherent qualities. I HAVE to be confident. I MUST be confident”
Take a Decision
The hardest times are the times of indecision. Decision makes things easier. It pushes the uncertainty away and gives you a purpose to focus. It makes you think. Once you have decided to be confident, you are no longer waiting for some miracle to happen. You have taken a decision. You have control on your life now. You have decided not to waste your life anymore. You have decided to be confident. You have decided to take on this world head on!
This decision makes your life easier. It makes you feel lighter. You have a purpose and you got to focus on that purpose. Your mind is most powerful when its focussed. You can feel the difference. A focus mind changes your body language. Your steps are solid, your handshake is firm, your eyes right ahead. You become a changed person - A person who has the ability to achieve goals, the ability to be happy about his achievement, the ability to love to his family, the ability to stand in the crowd without any stress, the ability to take risks, the ability to realize his dream. Won’t you rather be like this person? Go ahead, you can do it.
Your time starts now!
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